‘Why Do I Make Less Than My Male Co?Stars?’ Essay by Jennifer Lawrence

When Lena first brought up the idea of Lenny to me, I was excited. Excited to speak to Lena, who I think is a genius, and excited to start thinking about what to complain about (that?s not what she pitched me, it?s just what I?m gonna do). When it comes to the subject of feminism, I?ve remained ever-so-slightly quiet. I don?t like joining conversations that feel like they?re ?trending.? I?m even the asshole who didn?t do anything about the ice-bucket challenge ? which was saving lives ? because it started to feel more like a ?trend? than a cause. I should have written a check, but I fucking forgot, okay? I?m not perfect. But with a lot of talk comes change, so I want to be honest and open and, fingers crossed, not piss anyone off.

It?s hard for me to speak about my experience as a working woman because I can safely say my problems aren?t exactly relatable. When the Sony hack happened and I found out how much less I was being paid than the lucky people with dicks, I didn?t get mad at Sony. I got mad at myself. I failed as a negotiator because I gave up early. I didn?t want to keep fighting over millions of dollars that, frankly, due to two franchises, I don?t need. (I told you it wasn?t relatable, don?t hate me).

But if I?m honest with myself, I would be lying if I didn?t say there was an element of wanting to be liked that influenced my decision to close the deal without a real fight. I didn?t want to seem ?difficult? or ?spoiled.? At the time, that seemed like a fine idea, until I saw the payroll on the Internet and realized every man I was working with definitely didn?t worry about being ?difficult? or ?spoiled.? This could be a young-person thing. It could be a personality thing. I?m sure it?s both. But this is an element of my personality that I?ve been working against for years, and based on the statistics, I don?t think I?m the only woman with this issue. Are we socially conditioned to behave this way? We?ve only been able to vote for what, 90 years? I?m seriously asking ? my phone is on the counter and I?m on the couch, so a calculator is obviously out of the question. Could there still be a lingering habit of trying to express our opinions in a certain way that doesn?t ?offend? or ?scare? men?

A few weeks ago at work, I spoke my mind and gave my opinion in a clear and no-bullshit way; no aggression, just blunt. The man I was working with (actually, he was working for me) said, ?Whoa! We?re all on the same team here!? As if I was yelling at him. I was so shocked because nothing that I said was personal, offensive, or, to be honest, wrong. All I hear and see all day are men speaking their opinions, and I give mine in the same exact manner, and you would have thought I had said something offensive.

I?m over trying to find the ?adorable? way to state my opinion and still be likable! Fuck that. I don?t think I?ve ever worked for a man in charge who spent time contemplating what angle he should use to have his voice heard. It?s just heard. Jeremy Renner, Christian Bale, and Bradley Cooper all fought and succeeded in negotiating powerful deals for themselves. If anything, I?m sure they were commended for being fierce and tactical, while I was busy worrying about coming across as a brat and not getting my fair share. Again, this might have NOTHING to do with my vagina, but I wasn?t completely wrong when another leaked Sony email revealed a producer referring to a fellow lead actress in a negotiation as a ?spoiled brat.? For some reason, I just can?t picture someone saying that about a man.

SOURCE: Lenny Letter

New ‘THG: Mockingjay Part 2’ Stills

Filmography ? The Hunger Games: Mockingjay Part 2 (2015) – Stills [link]

Jennifer Lawrence Gives Aziz Ansari a Piggyback Ride Outside ‘Saturday Night Live’ After-Party

Jennifer Lawrence picks up Aziz Ansari and carries him out of a hotel following the Saturday Night Live after-party last night in New York City.

The 25-year-old Oscar winner stepped out for the party for her pal Amy Schumer, who hosted the show.

Candid Photos ? Carrying Aziz Ansari to his car after SNL After Party at The Wayfarer Restaurant in New York – October 10 [link]

Busy afternoon in NYC

In the previous post we could see Jen leaving her hotel in NYC. Now we know what she was doing later that day – she was seen filming an interview with Diane Sawyer in New York City.

The 25-year-old actress and the famed news anchor, who are both Kentucky natives, took a stroll through Union Square for a yet-to-be announced interview segment.

Candid Photos ? Filming an interview with Diane Sawyer at Union Square – October 10 [link]

Later, Jennifer was spotted exiting De Vera Art Gallery and a clothing boutique in SoHo.

Candid Photos ? Leaving De Vera Art Gallery in SoHo – October 10 [link]

Out and About in NYC

Jennifer Lawrence steps out of her hotel and into an awaiting car on Saturday afternoon (October 10) in New York City.

Candid Photos ? Out and About in New York City (2015) – October 10 [link]

The 25-year-old actress is on a break from filming her upcoming movie Passengers, which she has been shooting with Chris Pratt in Atlanta.


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